He went to college for 2 years having come from Pakistan since he was 16. After completing 2 years his visa expired and instead of leaving he overstayed. He does have a legal brother here. He is working at the moment a paid job he said he does illegal things the legal way, he then went on to make a dating website online and I found him we started talking for a year and met twice I asked him straight up he have me a long answer saying marriage will give me confidence and help me get visa and marriage stops me fro. Commiting sins he's 22 I'm 21. He told me everything about past life he said he can't tell me details about his visa issue. He thinks I'm the one and claims he would like to marry me. I said no in not ready he said why at first then apologised and said its ok no Need for rush I can wait although he seems like he's in a rush. He seems really genuine person in not sure though he said there's no other option besides marriage he doesn't want to go back to Pakistan his dad and stepmom are there with sisters?? Help anyone

meeting twice doesn't make him a boyfriend. A boyfriend is somebody you meet much more frequently.

Getting rushed into marriage definitely indicates some ulterior motive. Though he really doesn't have any other option to become legal besides marrying an US citizen. However that US citizen also needs to have sufficient income to sponsor him. He might genuinely be planning to try his best to make a marriage work, but he also knows that he needs the marriage so he doesn't have to worry about deportation.

You might also benefit to have some conversations about religion. If you are not very religious he sounds like he is, and that is something you need to be able to accept in each other.

He is illegal and you can't do illegal things in a legal way, that alone should tell you he is prepared to do anything to get what HE wants and he doesn't care about the law, he has no respect for the country or the laws in the country, he came as a guest to enable him to get an education to better himself and knew when he came he was a guest of the country and the student visa was non immigration

You are a fool if you get involved with people who deliberatly break the law, of course he is using you to try to remain, that is his ONLY goal and if you are not a fool then he will just find another person and tell them the same thing he told you

If you are in the UK then you can't marry him, he is not legally living there, so is unable to get married, he will be picked up by immigration and deported and you will be in serious trouble as assisting an illegal to remain

The best way to find out is to tell him you don't plan to marry until you reach the national average age of first marriage which is 27.9. If he's in it for the wrong reason and trying to rush you to the altar he'll beg off and go find some other mark.

Of course he's using you! He only wants a green card/immigration status. He's breaking laws left & right in addition to his visa violations. In fact, he committed visa fraud when he first applied for a visa - he intended to remain illegally until he found an employer or temporary "spouse" to get him a green card.

You know he's lying to you & deceiving you! You already know he's not telling you the truth & refuses to tell you everything. You already know he's a lawbreaker AND he lies to you! He treats you like pond scum.

If you marry him to "help" him get a visa, you are subject to 5 years in prison (can be up to 10, depending on charges), plus $250,000 fine.

Dump him fast! He is nothing but pain, heartache, possibly even prison, for you. Not to mention how much he's going to take out of your wallet. Stop being a fool & listen to what you already know in your head & heart - he's nothing but trouble for you.

Most of the south Asians are like that, they marry, date people for money or getting their things done, dump him as soon as possible, I'm 25% Indian so I know what I'm saying, the society there is narrow minded, same is with Pakistan.

He's not your boyfriend. He's been looking on the internet for someone naive enough to want to marry a an illegal immigrant. I bet he has othe women who think he is their boyfriend.

Just so you know, marrying you doesn't give him the right to stay in the UK, in fact as he is illegal he cannot marry in the UK.

He is here illegally and is using you (and possibly other women at the same time) to try and get married in order to stay in this country.

Time for him to go back where he came from I think.

As an illegal he can't marry you anyway. And if the authorities thought you were only marrying him to get him a visa, then he is in trouble and you are too.

If nothing else you have only met this guy in person TWICE and you are considering marrying him !!!! Whoa - stop and think please - for your own sake

You are being used. If he wasn't using you, he would return home, stay there until his ban was up, then have you apply for a fiance visa so he could legally return

March him down to an immigration office and see if he is willing to have an immigration officer explain, in front of you, what are the issues in his case. Suspect him of concealingderogatory information. If he can't live up to thelaw here, he ought not to be here

Thanks for your answers he says he has a valid driving license and that's the only thing he would need I provide for proof when he gets married