I know a fast food place that stays open until 3am so I was thinking that might be an option for the first night.
I also know this girl that left school last year & went to college, and I'm close to her and she comes to the town my school is in and I don't really know if it's possible or not that she'd be able to let me stay in her apartment or house but I'm just thinking on my toes here.
Again, I want genuine answers. And I want to know from someone who's had experience of running away before or know someone, what was it like and what happened?
Thanks
Ok, getting out of a bad situation is not only possible it can be done with assistance from a range of different sources.
One way is to simply move in with a friend. If you are living in a household where there are adults it is safe and you will get support from social workers.
A lot does depend on why you are running away. If it is just because your parents don't let you go out and have fun you won't get much support, but anything related to abuse will usually get you immediate protection from the state.
The obvious thing to do is talk to a trusted teacher, school counselor or even your local police or priest.
Some numbers you can call for help
Childline Freephone Helpline: 1800 666 666
Samaritans Callsave: 1850 60 90 90
Women's Aid National Freephone Helpline: 1800 341 900
A.M.E.N. (for male victims) Tel: 046 9023718
Talk to a duty social worker at your local HSE health centre. For details try: HSE Infoline Lo-call 1850 24 1850
Remember that as you get older you have rights and these include the right to express your opinion and have these taken into consideration. So even if there is no direct abuse, if you are in a situation where feel emotionally bullied and upset then there are options to help you.
If you are under 18, the chances are that people will look for you. They will talk to your friends at school to find out who you know and go and talk to them. What will you do when your money runs out? When you want a bath and clean clothes? What if you can't find this friend or if she doesn't want to get involved in your problems and potentially create some for herself? You need to think about these things before running away.
If someone allows you to stay with them, knowing your parents don't know where you are, they could get in serious trouble. Is it worth it?
Well, If you are going to do it, you have to find a way to make sure no one you know sees you.
You may think it would be a thrill. But, there are many things you have to do, that might not be fun.
Can't have anyone you know see you. They will contact your parents.
IDK what it is in Ireland. Police that make sure your in school. If they see you, they will detain you and get your parents.
So you will have to stay away all day, and only go out at night. The food place will know your their for a long time, and someone might see you that you know.
The only thing that would be good is the girl you can stay with.
But, honestly, you will end up going back eventually. You will never be able to make it on your own. A college student can't be taking care of a kid who probably just wants attention and feels bad for themselves.
Think about it. What job are you going to get when you need a place of your own?
Can't go back to school, your broke.
If you want, you can be a prostitute, and sell yourself.
But whatever, not my life. You can go and **** yours up for attention.
Cheers.
