I've been invited by one of my friends to visit them at their home in Lahore, Pakistan. My friend has assured me it is a safe city, and I've met other Pakistani people who assure me it is (and internet research seems to suggest so too). I wasn't really worried about that, but there is something I'm concerned about - I'm a western caucasian male, and my friend is a muslim female (we're both in our 20s). There's nothing going on between us, but I'm worried that somehow people over there might assume we're in a relationship if we're walking around together a lot, and that could lead to trouble potentially? I don't want to pre-judge the place in any way, but it's hard not to express a concern considering the constant media bombardment we get about how supposedly dangerous the country is.
Therefore, I'd just like to ask anybody who knows Pakistani society well whether people might assume we're in a relationship, and if so would it bother them in any way, even to the extent that my friend or myself might have some trouble?
Thanks! :)
I live in Lahore and can clear your doubts partially. Lahore is safe for a visit and you need not have fears. I was in Detroit earlier this month and myself witnessed scenes which one never thought of while living in Pakistan, it was horrendous. Yes we are a conservative society and in our religion it is not allowed for a single adult female to be in the company of a stranger or any one outside the immediate male family relatives. If she introduces as her friend to outsiders that would not be deemed as "good".In as much as I think if the two of you are seen in public places the assumption would be that you are into a relationship. The list is a lengthy one so if you have other questions you can always email them to me, my Yahoo email is open for your queries.
I am from Karachi, Pakistan's commercial capital and largest city. Lahore is the cultural capital and second largest city, and is arguably the most liberal city in the country. When I visited Karachi last summer, I asked about Lahore and its culture and found out that people openly have girlfriends there. Women ride motorbikes as well; something which does not even happen in Karachi. You are good to go, my friend!
no bro people here are not that much conservative you can visit Lahore. but there will be restrictions on your friend by her family, that is this society really is.
people will definitely raise questions about both of you although it will create no problem for you or for her but still people want something to gossip about.
apart from meeting your friend you should visit Pakistan its a beautiful country.
I am not Pakistani or ever been there, but as an Muslim girl I would say :
Your friend herself know her society and most important Her family situation, so if she invited you "Seriously", It means She is sure you both won't have any problems...so just trust her.
also It will be helpful if you let her know your concerns.
Don't worry! I've been to Lahore many times, and I can assure you it's safe! It is a busy place though, with all those motorcycles. ???????????????????????????? All cultures accepted.
Try not to get gang raped
