I am 17 years of age at the moment and I would like to visit my significant other who lives quite a long ways from me. Because it would take too long by car, I plan to use a plane. I have all the money I need to get to and from the airport, for the round trip ticket, and accommodations for when I arrive there. The only trouble I have found myself unable to change or avoid is the fact that my mother disapproves of me traveling there.
Would there be any legality issues if I were to just go? In the state I am in, it is a crime to run away. But, with this being said, I do plan to return. I am simply taking advantage of the time off that I have from school, and using what I have saved up for a Christmas present for myself. Should I go? Of should I wait to try it again next year until she changes her mind?
At 17 you are NOY legally an adult. If you still live in your parents house and are financially dependent on your parents, you do NOT have the right to do anything you please and you ARE obliged to obey your parents. there would be a heck of a lot of trouble and you would destroy trust between your parents and yourself if you disobeyed them and went anyway. Why not see if your "significant other" can visit you? You are obliged to obey your parents and listen to their wisdom. When you are totally independent and 18 or over, then you can do as you please...and hopefully, make wise decisions. TALK to your mom and ask her to explain her concerns...I am sure she is very concerned about your safety and welfare.
If you live with your mother, I would not advise you to do so. You may not have a place when you come back and at 17 you are a minor. If she is against this, wait until next year. Save your money and when of age move out.
Well, it's not considered "running away" when you leave and come back. If I were you, I would go for sure. Your an adult basically at 17 and you have rights. Just because your mother does not want you to go doesn't mean you cannot go. What if I don't have the chance next year? It's worthless then, just go.
If you leave without permission, just sneak away, your parents can and will call the police.
