I am a Rus' girl and I open door for disabled and old people (of both genders).
If you open a door for a physically healthy man (like your colleague for instance) he'll be very confused and show/tell you to enter first, if you resist then he will most likely feel even more confused/awkward (unless he's in hurry)... It's not a way to attract him rather vice versa, you'll be considered weird (or bad joker). When in Eastern Europe, relax, and be a lady. We don't like feminism.
Yes, to opem a door and miss forward a woman. But if you come into, then miss out at first, who's come out, even if it'll a man.
if you want to insult a man who wants to do it for you.
its acceptable cuz its nice